Post Date December, 02 2023
There is no need to grasp the happiness of life. Peter Salovey, dean of Yale University and founder of emotional intelligence theory, told you that three elements of family happiness are indispensable.
Keep a certain distance.
Family members, especially couples, should not take it for granted that everything should be together. The point distance can be properly manufactured in space. For example, take advantage of weekends and short holidays to "go home" and accompany their relatives and friends respectively; You can also travel separately by taking advantage of opportunities such as collective activities. Even within the family, you can create space, such as doing something you like at night. In terms of psychological distance, on the one hand, don't always nag about your own things, or inquire about things that your family doesn't want to say; On the other hand, there is a clear circle of friends outside the family.
Find common ground.
Common views, interests and hobbies are easy to resonate. These common points can be singing, exercise and other activities, as well as opinions and evaluations.
Get to know each other well.
If you want to understand others, you should first respect them, including their living habits, personal privacy you want to keep, etc. Only in this way can others express their sincerity. Secondly, share your feelings with your family in time and communicate in sharing.
