Post Date December, 03 2023
I'm afraid I have no money and no freedom
Xiaoqin: "Cohabitation has now been recognized by the society. My boyfriend and I have been living together for two years. Cohabitation is happy and free. I don't think we need to consider marriage at all. Think about it. For white-collar workers like us, we have to buy a house to get married, and we should ask relatives and friends to make a meal for marriage. This cost will make our heads ache for those people whose income is not high or low. Moreover, I am worried that I can now I have a good time with my peers, but once I get married, not only will I take into account the responsibilities given by marriage when I go out to Puba and end early, but also my friends will have such concerns, so to sum up, it is not enough freedom to marry! "
Marriage should be put aside first
White sand: "I am engaged in the news industry, and the employment system prevails in this industry, so I may change jobs from Guangzhou to Beijing or Shanghai at any time. If I get married, it is not a matter of one person to change jobs from Guangzhou, but two people. One of my colleagues was taken by a mainland media, and wanted to ask him to be the deputy editor in chief, but because I got married, I had to give up the idea of changing jobs. With this point, we want to make a big career We have to let marriage stand aside. "
Too tired of falling in love
Wen Feng: Many modern people want to rush out of the besieged city after getting married, especially those who have seen their parents divorced and those who have seen the extramarital affairs in movies and TV dramas, are prone to have a fear of marriage. Some friends around me have been in love for five or six years, but they still have no confidence to carry out the love in the end. One of the reasons is that they feel tired of being together for a long time. Once there is a better choice, they have no marriage relationship. Why not break up?
So the longer you are in love, the harder it is to get married. And now white-collar workers are so busy that they are busy charging when they are free. How can they have time to communicate? Think about it. If the couple can't communicate well after marriage, it will lead to the indifference of both parties, and such marriage will soon be doomed.
Editor's note: Although the life of white-collar workers in the city is enviable, it is a question worth their thinking about how to go on as women. Which is more important on both sides of the scale, career or marriage?
