Post Date April, 15 2023
To keep a happy marriage, men should make good use of five "locks". Use five "locks" to firmly hold the happiness of marriage, family harmony and beautiful love. What are these five "locks"? Let's get to know.
Clear life goal
As a married man with a sense of responsibility, he must have a clear life goal and work hard towards it. The success of men largely determines the hope of families. A French writer once said that "the best cosmetics for women are hope". From then on, we can see how much hope women place on hope. If a woman marries a man who has no life goal and is unwilling to fight for it, even if the man has a good appearance, the woman will be disappointed. Although women like to fantasize, they will not fantasize to ignore reality.
Tough Pindeutsche
When working hard for the goal, men should have strong moral character as support. To succeed in career, men must bear a lot. This includes not only the efforts of men, but also the need for men to show more strong willpower in the face of difficulties and failures. This kind of breed is not what a man's attractive appearance can show. It can only be tested after the appearance of hardship. The biggest difference between men and women is that men need to take greater career risks. If a woman doesn't have a career, others will not say anything. If a man doesn't have a career or achievements, not only his wife doesn't like it, but also others will say something.
Home-centered consciousness
When men are fighting outside, they should remember that home is a warm harbor. Although women like men who fight for their careers, they absolutely do not like men who use their homes as hotels. Men should always keep this family in mind, and do things with the family as the center. Given the relatively large range of activities of men, women will always feel that men need to do centrifugal telecontrol. In order to reassure women or feel the care of men, men should pay their wages to their wives; At the same time, discuss family matters with his wife at the beginning of each year and month. Generally, women should be encouraged to do things by themselves. When major events occur, men must appear in front of women.
Ability to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to reconcile since ancient times, but with the development and progress of mankind, people get along more and more harmoniously. There is no longer an irreconcilable contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Of course, it is also very difficult to make them feel like mothers and daughters. So for the sake of family stability, men should have the ability to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Men should learn to educate their wives and other family members to prevent conflicts; At the same time, after conflicts occur, we should avoid escalation of conflicts. Talk about the matter as it is, and do not be partial or selfish. After the event, please coax your wife and mother to satisfy both parties.
Harmonious married life
The harmony of husband and wife's life has a great influence on their feelings. Perfect sex life can make couples healthier physically and mentally and more harmonious. So men should make efforts for a harmonious sexual life, no matter how appropriate. Perfect sex life is not waiting, but can be created. Changing the time, place, skill, position, etc. of sexual intercourse, or using lubricating and sexual products, can add fresh interest to sexual life, and make sexual life more energetic and perfect forever.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
