In the popular urban emotional drama "The Good Times of Daughter-in-law", the aftertaste to Mao Doudou: "You are the commander in chief, I am the chief worker" has captured the hearts of many married women. In real life, "women in charge and men in charge" is a long-standing traditional family concept. Many men think that they have more social responsibilities, and their wives should do "household chores" for themselves, so that they can work outside without burden. However, many families have been arguing about it. Some seemingly trivial matters have caused many family conflicts.
Should women naturally do more housework?
Century Jiayuan, the largest serious dating website in China, launched a heated discussion about "Should women naturally do more housework?". The netizens spoke freely and discussed enthusiastically. Among them, they held the opposing view that "housework should not be done by women" accounted for nearly two-thirds of the total number.
Positive point of view: women should take more housework
Most of those who agree with this view believe that making the best use of things and making the best use of people, men's farming and women's weaving are the most harmonious relationship between husband and wife since ancient times. Life always has its own responsibilities. Women are in charge of household chores from top to bottom in the family. Cleaning, cooking, taking care of children, taking care of the elderly and so on are natural things, and also women's responsibilities and fun. Jiayuan Supporters said:
Ghost Ranger: Men can openly admit that they are not good at housework. For example, washing clothes. The clothes that men wash are not as clean as those that women wash. So it's not men who don't do it, but do it for nothing! (I'm not satisfied with being a woman, but don't try to please me) Since it's a waste! It's better not to do it!
God of Plague: God has given women patience and delicate nature. Only by doing housework with such nature can they last forever. Happiness is what a woman wants most. She is willing to pay for her other half, even if she does the housework that she can never finish every day. So God gave women happy hands.
I love classical: women should take the responsibility of doing housework, just as society requires men to take care of the family! Please respect such an objective law, which cannot be changed, just as the sun must rise in the east and set in the west.
Eagle over South Lake: Don't look down on housework. At the beginning of the breakdown of every family, most of it is caused by quarrels over domestic matters. Then, it will cause big problems. So when we get home, we have to fight for housework no matter how hard or tired we are.