Post Date December, 03 2023
"I have been married for four years, and I am 32 years old. I have a car and a house, and I live a relatively modest life. Of course, there is nothing to show off about it. I mainly thank my husband, who is the backbone of the family and the main source of income.". My husband is a burly figure with a height of 1.8m. He has a bold and forthright personality, is considerate, and is a good cook. During normal holiday breaks, he always rushes to do housework and cook, so I don't have to worry at all. In the eyes of others, my husband is a model husband and often praises me for being blessed.
Li Ling is a colleague in my unit, 2 years younger than me. She has a slim waist and a fine hair, and she blows like a orchid. She is also a beauty without applying makeup. Due to her high vision, she has been in love six times and has not yet married. She is still known as a leftover woman in everyone's eyes. Li Ling is relatively independent. She came to Shanghai from Shandong alone, with no relatives around her. Because she and I are very congenial, I have become her best friend and have nothing to talk about in her free time. On one occasion, she inadvertently talked about emotions. She said that she had an ex boyfriend, who she liked very much and got along very well. It was the relationship she had talked about the longest. However, just before getting married, her boyfriend fell in love with another woman, and she broke up. Finally, she concluded that there is no reliable man, and that men do not cheat because of insufficient external temptation.
"I can tell. I think my husband is very reliable. When I go shopping with him, I don't look askance. Sometimes I look at a beautiful girl. As long as I see him, he doesn't look at me anymore.". She didn't believe it and decided to test my husband. I gave her WeChat to see what kind of person my husband was. In the evening, around 10 o'clock, she added him. After the addition, my husband is very careful every night, often looking forward and backward, and likes to scan around with residual light. I didn't see it in front of me, nor did I ask, even if it didn't happen.
Within a week, they had an appointment to meet in a bar. On that day, Li Ling specially dressed up and took a sexy route. She wore tight clothes and a hip wrapped skirt, which showed her good figure at a glance. The colorful lights, sometimes bright and sometimes dark, shone on Li Ling's white body, drawing my husband's gaze up and down, and the loneliness of the night was particularly provocative. After a few drinks, the gentleman felt a bit dazed and confused, dragged his best friend out, and finally drove to the hotel. While the husband was taking a shower, the girl walked out and took a taxi home.
After listening to my girlfriend's narration, I am still quite sad. If it weren't her girlfriend that day, it would have been another girl, and there would have been a relationship. "These days, I have not mentioned this matter to him, but I feel uneasy and afraid that such things will happen in the future. What should I do?"? Are men really unreliable?
Reply from the maintenance consultant:
There is a short story called "One sentence story", in which there is a line: using one lie to verify another lies, you can only get a lie. Similarly, you use your best friend to test whether your husband will cheat, and the result is a real cheat. This doesn't mean anything. At most, it means that your best friend can seduce your husband, and you should guard against your best friend in the future.
From your introduction, we can see that you are wealthy in life and rich in spirit, and your family is enjoying a very pleasant life. Once you are considered a winner in life, don't bother yourself anymore. Perhaps, you think it's funny what your girlfriend said and want to verify your husband, but it really happened, and you're scared again. It's like poking a snake hole. Once the snake comes out, you cry with fear. Therefore, it is best not to try marriage matters. Two people should build on mutual trust and jointly manage a good family.
However, you don't have to be afraid, anyway, your husband doesn't know about this matter, just like it didn't happen, living a normal and happy life like before. As for the question of whether men are reliable or not, this cannot be generalized. Some people are reliable, while others are not, and it is not so absolute.
