Post Date December, 03 2023
Judges all know that the most difficult thing to deal with is the relationship between husband and wife. Now many people have some conflicts. The first thing they think of is divorce. This is wrong. After all, marriage is not a child's play. Since you chose to work together, you should have problems to resolve together, not to break up. If there is a conflict between husband and wife, how to resolve it?
1. Find out the reason for the contradiction between you, especially the newlyweds, who are often very sweet in love or in the new marriage period.
But in the run-in process of marriage, because of the perennial confrontation between two people, there are inevitably many differences in life.
It is easy to cause family conflicts at this time. In this case, often two people begin to feel that each other has changed. In fact, it is often because two people hide their words in their hearts, resulting in a lack of communication. Finally, the shortcomings should be covered up.
When the contradiction reaches a certain level, the volcano will erupt. In fact, dealing with contradictions is not inevitable. More often, we should try to solve problems in a calm way.
At the same time, quarreling is also an art. Some people can solve problems by quarreling, but some people fight against each other.
The key is whether you can find the needs of each other in the process of relationship adjustment. How can we reasonably find out the acceptable conditions for both parties, so as to avoid more intense conflicts in the future.
2. To maintain their advantages, it is often easy for women to neglect themselves after marriage and start to be careless, which often gives men a certain sense of disgust. Not only do they quarrel constantly, but they may give pressure to the other party because of the quarrel, which may lead to extramarital affairs.
Remember to relax your vigilance after marriage. Women should invest more in their own bodies and learn how to keep a family and gain economic independence. Men should also understand women's emotional changes, so that marriage can flow smoothly.
3. We must cultivate our goals! It is important to know why goals are important. Family planning and the cultivation of a common hobby by two people seem not very important. In fact, they are the most important lubricants in a healthy marriage.
At the same time, in life, a reasonable division of labor, such as cooking and taking care of children, does not necessarily depend on women all the year round. Men should also share some of it together, so that both sides can better enter a state of harmony and understanding.
In the extra time, develop a hobby, such as play badminton and keeping a pet. In fact, it can enhance the interest of marriage.
Only by constantly cultivating the common sense between husband and wife can we form a tacit understanding in case of problems in the future. Just as the so-called "husband and wife are united, their benefits will be determined", we should start from small things, and often will stand in the united front when facing major problems in the future.
