Beware of being infatuated with wrong payments when it comes to late romantic relationships. Not everyone has achieved the same success as the siblings in the Chongqing Elderly Home. Just like Duke Song, who is 66 years old in Texas, thought he had met his confidant and had an old companion for the rest of his life. However, he was actually a "coaxing companion" and the 30000 yuan he had coaxed away from him disappeared.
The old man came late hoping for someone to chat with him and relieve his boredom, so some people deceived these elderly people who were not around their children and had lost their spouse for years. These elderly people come to be lonely, and at this time, all they need is someone to be by their side. Therefore, if a scammer takes advantage of the situation and enters, they are most likely to gain the trust of the elderly. A 30-year-old man in the United States is dating a 91-year-old woman. Although it is now reported that she is in love for her retirement, the woman does not mind because the man has given her companionship, which money cannot buy.
It is rare to have a companion in life, and it is not easy for the elderly to find a companion. Firstly, due to the influence of traditional ideas, they feel embarrassed to see the sunset bloom twice, feeling embarrassed in front of the younger generation. Secondly, their children and descendants do not agree because remarriage involves issues of inheritance rights. There was a news report that the old man and the old lady got along well and decided to form a family. However, they were opposed by the old man's family and ultimately ended up with the old lady giving up her inheritance rights and marrying in. This was not bad, at least it turned out to be a positive result. More elderly people, under the strong opposition of their children and descendants, eventually broke up and ended in pain.
Three empty rooms, with desolate walls on all sides, birds returning to their nests, the wind hitting the porch window, the lights imprinting a single shadow, and people stealing desolation "is a true portrayal of the lonely goose who has lost her spouse. The bleak evening scenery does not necessarily mean how poor and miserable material life is, but also refers to the impoverished spiritual life. Living alone, one can feel lonely and alone in pairs, full of bitterness and no one can tell. There is no one who knows what is on one's mind, not even a person to speak to. Naturally, one yearns for someone to care for and be accompanied. If someone deliberately approaches and makes friends at this time, and the elderly feel that the other person is good and suitable for companionship, it is easy to confide in them, trust them, and be deceived.
Of course, there are also some sincere friendships, such as being elderly people who have lost companionship. They usually live alone and rarely come to see their children when they are not around. No one pays attention to them and few understand them. The lonely and lonely evening scenery is bleak. Initially, they just want to chat and relieve loneliness, but after spending a long time together, they are both from the end of the world. Naturally, they feel that their hearts are closer and closer, leading to the idea of forming a family. But marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families. They want to form a family, and if their children feel ashamed and strongly oppose it due to their age, it is definitely the elderly who compromise. In addition, there are also elderly people who cannot overcome their own difficulties. Although they have weathered the ups and downs of the world, their thoughts still belong to the past. Some people who cannot hide their face may feel that everyone around them looks at them with strange eyes. Not everyone has the courage to face the crowd like the siblings in Chongqing. The most important issue is the issue of inheritance rights, as the spouse is the first inheritor and the children are the second. Therefore, if the elderly marry or marry someone, their inheritance cannot be inherited immediately, so the children are also unwilling to form a family with their parents. Therefore, many elderly people, in order to obtain the consent of their children, make wills explicitly stating that their partners waive their inheritance rights.
It is not easy for young people to find companionship, and it is even more difficult for elderly people to find companionship. As children, it is important to show more care, understanding, and tolerance.