90% of women suffer from love panic disorder. The higher the education level, the later the panic

Online dating, blind dates, online cohabitation... These popular elements considered in the emotional world are originally one of the characteristics of love panic! Recently, a website conducted an interesting "love survey report" on 20000 "singles", in which the panic index of both genders about love was highly concerned.

Higher education leads to later panic

According to the survey report, education is an important factor affecting the age of love panic. The panic of love almost always occurs one to three years after completing school, and the age group at which love panic occurs on a large scale is 25 years old. Within one to three years of graduation, most people find a satisfactory job, and once their material foundation is fixed, the idea of finding a relationship begins to jump in their minds. The higher the education level, the stronger the competitiveness of love, which psychologically leads to the age division of love panic.

A man panics again three years later

In the structural analysis of the respondents, it was found that as soon as people reach the age of 25, they begin to want to complete their personal life events. For women, panic at the age of 25 is relatively easy to understand. And male panic is more of an illusion. Experts analyze that in terms of marriage age, men are generally higher than women. Based on the difference in marriage age between men and women, men's love panic should be three years later than women's.

Women with "three highs" are the most dangerous

The survey found that members between the ages of 25 and 30 are the most likely to find friends and are also popular targets on matchmaking and dating websites. After the age of 30, the success curve of marriage and love will continue to be bearish, and the difficulty will increase geometrically, especially for women. Among them, women with high education, high income, and high age are the least favored. Influenced by traditional beliefs, the "three highs" women inevitably bring a sense of oppression to men, with the suspicion of hurting their self-esteem.

Symptoms of fear of marriage

1. Eager to get to know the opposite sex through various channels and then acquire a love relationship

2. Because I don't have a romantic relationship, I often have nothing to do after work and like to go shopping alone in the supermarket

3. For things like being a light bulb, I feel bored and eagerly anticipating it

4. Passionate about the infatuated male or female lead in a romantic drama

5. Clearly remember every wedding I have attended. The website's psychological counselor suggests that courting men and women should face their panic and maintain a natural and relaxed mindset.

Formula: The fear of marriage itself is actually due to a sense of insecurity towards future uncertainty.

Recipe 1: Give yourself a false impression of optimism. People feel fearful and uneasy when faced with a future they cannot control. In fact, the response method is very simple. It's worth giving yourself an optimistic assumption and imagination.

Prescription 2: Believe in your ability to cope, gradually your attention will focus on how to enhance your ability to cope with changes.

Fear of the responsibilities that marriage brings

Wearing a pair of running shoes under the snow-white romantic wedding dress, ready to slip away from one end of the red carpet at any time, is this Big Mouth Sister Julia? Roberts' classic look in 'Escaping Bride'. Returning from movies to reality, Stala, who is in her thirties, became a "runaway bride". Stela originally planned to marry her boyfriend of 2 years. But since deciding on the wedding date, she has felt uneasy all over. She is accustomed to freedom and is afraid that marriage will bring about changes in her lifestyle. She always unconsciously finds various reasons to delay the wedding date, and finally they fall out and end up breaking up.

Symptoms: retreat, retreat, and escape in the face of danger

Stala has experienced this kind of withdrawal from marriage for the third time. Every time she was preparing to get married, a pile of greasy pots and pans, endless laundry, and endless rooms would always come to mind in her mind... Every time she thought of these, she lacked the courage to step into the palace of marriage.

Looking at people who are trapped in fear of marriage, there are often two types: one is people who are not confident enough. They know that marriage has the possibility of happiness, but they dare not take on the risks and responsibilities of future changes. Faced with a crisis, he does not believe in his ability to cope and solve it, so he is hesitant or unwilling to engage in this "exploration activity".

Another type is someone who exudes a strong personality and excessively pursues oneself, such as Stela. This type of person is responsible for themselves, but is not accustomed to accepting constraints from others. They are worried that marriage will lose their independence and freedom, narrow or even close their social circle, and therefore unconsciously develop a fear mentality.