Post Date December, 03 2023
Excuse 1: It's better not to wear it anymore, I'm really not used to it
Countermeasure: Without safety, how can happiness be enjoyed? Habits are accumulated through continuous practice. Without trying or experiencing, how can one become accustomed? If condoms are used from the moment of marriage, and there is no other experience of not wearing "arms" to compare, there will be no feeling of "washing feet while wearing socks". In less than three months, they will find that the discomfort that was rumored before is purely exaggerated!
Excuse 2: Wearing a condom will reduce the hardness of the "little brother"
Countermeasure: Although some people do find that their "little brother" seems a bit tired after putting on a condom, it is not as strong as before. This is because they interrupted their sexual activity to get a condom and then carefully put on the jacket for their "little brother" due to distraction. It is understandable that the "little brother" stole a little lazy while being ignored, and cannot be blamed! Moreover, this is only temporary, and it is slightly relaxed, not completely sagging down. For young people, in just a few minutes, the "little brother" who puts on new clothes will be even more proud to stand tall again!
Excuse three: The condom is too small to strangle the "little brother"
Countermeasure: How big is his "little brother" really? I think it's just bragging again. Modern condoms are made of latex and have great elasticity. You can even blow them into a big balloon, even bigger than his head! How old is his "little brother"? Don't scare me anymore. Of course, it's also appropriate to choose a suitable size coat for the "little brother". If using a condom that is too small, its main drawback is that it is easy to burst and generally does not have obvious discomfort for him. The so-called "strangled me" must be a super lie! A condom that is too large can easily slip into the vagina, and even if it does not slip, semen can easily overflow from the opening and enter the vagina.
Excuse four: There's no time left, I can't wait any longer
Countermeasure: The time it takes to wear a condom is so fast that it can be measured in seconds. If he cannot persist in just a few seconds, then he must have premature ejaculation this time. Premature ejaculation is something that all men are unwilling to face. Even if he doesn't use a condom, making him attack immediately is only a matter of seconds, and even before he enters, he will vent. When this is true, don't blame him, let alone laugh at him. Men need to face the most. The occasional premature ejaculation is worth forgiving and sympathizing. Let him ejaculate in coitus interruptus, so that he can console himself: "This is not premature ejaculation, but to take care of her in order to avoid her suffering from pregnancy." In order to avoid embarrassing him by too fast ejaculation.
Excuse 5: Just don't wear it this time, okay? Be sure to use it next time.
Countermeasure: This is an excellent excuse to take action step by step and slowly destroy your rational defense line. As long as the compromise starts, the next thing will always be "the next time must be... the next time must be..." This cycle is endless. Indeed, the probability of a fake rendezvous being only once may not be very high, but unfortunately, according to authoritative research, if the woman made a compromise and either won the lottery with just one shot, or felt lucky that "everything was safe last time, let's not use it this time". In the future, it will inevitably go from passive acceptance time and time again to the extent that the woman actively requests not to use condoms, until she truly becomes pregnant. There won't be another time now!
Excuse 6: After wearing it, there is no feeling at all
Countermeasure: This sentence is too exaggerated! Although we have to admit that some men's penile sensitivity may decrease slightly after using condoms, it is never without feeling! Unless all his "little brother" nerves have gone on strike.
Excuse 7: Dear, I want to be closer to you!
Countermeasure: This is a classic and beautiful excuse for "veterans", as well as a powerful emotional bomb. Under the bombardment of these sweet words, many girls often forget that danger is tempting them and are willing to have sex without protection. As a result, unexpected pregnancies are highly likely to occur. A safe and carefree sexual life is the only way to have a happy sexual life. The true barrier is never a thin condom. Its thickness is only 0.04-0.07 millimeters, and some even reach 0.02-0.03 millimeters, without any obvious foreign object sensation. The sincere care of the two, especially the sense of responsibility of the gentlemen, is crucial for bridging the gap.
Excuse 8: It's a safe period now, it's okay if you don't wear it
Countermeasure: This is the most terrifying excuse, even with a hint of ignorance. If it is what the first married man said, it may be "pretending to understand without understanding, always being a loser!" It can also be forgiven; If it's done by an "old hand", then it's time to criticize his ignorance. In terms of contraceptive effectiveness, the World Health Organization clearly tells us that only absolute abstinence is the only safety. The author has encountered pregnancy due to coitus interruptus, and even small pregnant women with unbroken hymen, as well as "unlucky people" who are pregnant due to roommates during menstruation. The safe period contraception method is indeed the simplest and most convenient method, but it is not a safe method for people with irregular menstruation. Many people may experience endocrine disorders due to external factors such as mental stress and significant changes in the environment. It is unclear when menstruation can occur, let alone when the exact safe period is.
For men who refuse to wear condoms, all excuses are just beautiful excuses. In fact, condoms play a crucial role in men's lives and even serve as a psychological symbol.
