In the view of most of us, men are very strong and do not need the care and love of women. This view is most vividly reflected in marriage. However, it is precisely for this reason that many men are prone to extramarital affairs in marriage. From this point of view, men's cheating is not entirely due to their flirtatiousness, but rather to their lack of understanding and concern.
This is enough to prove that men also need to understand. Therefore, whether you are in love or marriage, you should give the other party sufficient understanding and care. The following nine things, as you around him, must not be unknown.
1. Men also like to be praised
Everyone knows that women need to be coaxed, but they don't know that men also need to be coaxed. The reason why we ignore this point is that men always have a strong self-esteem and a sense of superiority. They like to listen to women's compliments and hope to receive two appropriate compliments occasionally, but it must be from the heart and never be hypocritical. Advice: Don't think a man is a fool, he just doesn't want to take you too seriously.
2. Men also like to be shown
In reality, most men chase women and want them to confess. However, men pursue women across the mountain, and women pursue men across the veil. This sentence still makes sense. So in front of him, you can say what you think, what you want to feel. Go straight, don't hint. Don't play dumb, men are not so delicate. They may not know what you're talking about after you've performed. Advice: Don't let men think you're playing tricks, they have limited abilities.
3. Men don't like you to hide
Women like makeup and want to show their most beautiful side to them, but you're wrong. He appreciates your plain appearance more than your heavy makeup. Although proper makeup is polite to people, doesn't it lead to a lack of authenticity? There's no need to hide yourself so much in front of him. Advice: Don't let a man see your painted wall, it will make him feel very artificial and you won't trust him.
4. Men like healthy you
Compared to shopping and sleeping in, men prefer sports, and they also like healthy women. In their view, weekends mean sports time, not just once or twice, or all day sports, such as shopping or getting tired in bed. Don't let him think you're boring. In fact, on weekends, we can do things that we both want to do together. Advice: Don't ask too much of your man, it will disgust him.
5. Men like you to save face
Men all want face, and they want to be perfect in your eyes and hearts. They want you to remember their strengths, forget their weaknesses, and often praise their talents, abilities, and charm, while ignoring their weaknesses to give them a good image and a good mood. Men's hearts are smaller than women's, and they can get hurt, so don't overdo it. Advice: Your man is not a god, and he may have minor faults, but you also need to make him have faith in you.
6. A man wants you to give him love
Men also need to be loved, and they hope you can tell them your love. This desire comes from the heart. Bold and without any disguise. So, when you tell her that you love him, you must be sincere. He thinks you want him to forget his existence. The desire for sincerity and purity is the sexiest charm for a man. Advice: Do you have any demands on him, otherwise there will be no stores after passing this village.
Of course, in addition to the above, the more important thing is that in your marriage, you cannot touch his bottom line, which is the most deadly. So, be careful.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)