Marriage between a man and a woman is not just about two people forming a family, but rather the combination of two families. That is to say, accept everything from each other. But ultimately, what a person loves the most is themselves. So, how can two unrelated individuals eliminate differences and obstacles in their marriage? So, take a good look at the suggestions and reminders below.
1. Marriage requires dedication
Simply put, marriage is like an empty house. If you don't put furniture inside, you won't know how beautiful and warm the house is. How much you can get from it depends on how much you save inside. The "happiness" in marriage cannot be solely supported by love. It can only be fulfilled when it is connected to responsibility, obligation, and commitment, and can also ensure that you have it firmly.
2. Adapting in marriage
Two people with completely different living environments form a family. Don't expect others to change or change on your own, the key is to adapt to each other. So, don't expect a person to bring about changes in marriage. The true nature and bottom line of human nature is that no reason can make a person completely different. Changing oneself to love someone often seems like a heartwarming promise, but in reality, it is a sweet promise that is difficult to fulfill. Marrying someone means accepting them as they are on ordinary days, rather than just remembering their appearance when they were loved and burned.
3. Freedom in Marriage
A good marriage must be very comfortable and relaxed. This is because marriage is not about saving relationships or belonging to relationships, it is about interpersonal relationships. What truly belongs to you does not need to be proven with effort. Love does not support possessive individuals, and marriage is not a refuge for anyone. Firmly grasping what you are afraid of losing can only indicate that you are not confident. So, the more you want something, the more you have to let go.
4. Be truthful in marriage
Having a beautiful marriage is not difficult. There is a once and for all solution, which is to ensure to be a true and unique self no matter when. If you want to make changes, you must also ensure that your changes are willingly made. Because the things you want the most must be obtained with the most authentic appearance in order to be reliable. Do not embellish and distort yourself because of love, otherwise, the things you get will either not be retained or become expensive shackles.
5. Independence in marriage
A happy marriage is definitely both interrelated and independent, which is also a secret to a long-lasting marriage. Whether you are the CEO of a company or a waiter at a restaurant; Whether you cook like a high-end chef or grill popcorn in the microwave, you must firmly maintain your uniqueness and confidence - for example, to maintain a relatively independent space with independent economic strength, career, family, friendship, and dreams?
6. Low expectations in marriage
No matter when it comes to a happy marriage, what you see is not what you get from it, how much you get, and what you can ask for, but that both individuals in the marriage demand less and will make demands within their own capacity. That is to say, the greatest respect for marriage is not to demand too much or too much from it. Therefore, in marriage, don't always ask for this or that, understand contentment, and even more importantly, learn to make demands.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)