Post Date December, 03 2023
Whether it's a man or a woman, occasionally eating "little vinegar" is quite beneficial, giving the other person a sweet and caring feeling. However, being overly jealous is a very scary thing, which not only hurts emotions, but also affects men's careers and women's mentality. Over time, marriage and family may unknowingly break down.
Below, I will briefly discuss several misconceptions that women have when it comes to being jealous. I hope this can not only alert women, but also attract more attention, tolerance, and understanding from men like netizens Jian.
Not being jealous
What I am saying here about not being jealous is actually just an external manifestation of women, because there is almost no woman in the world who cannot be "jealous". The reason why they show not being jealous is because they always use their inner patience, tolerance, and magnanimity to explain it. Perhaps their approach is highly praised by many people in society, but from the perspective of women themselves and marriage, I am very opposed.
Because for women in marriage and love, 'vinegar' is still a must to eat, and they must also eat it seriously and openly. Only by eating 'vinegar' well can you vent your negative emotions and also be a manifestation of the best and purest love for the other party. If a woman is not jealous, it is equivalent to letting other women invade. However, appropriate jealousy in marriage can form a protective wall, guarding you and your man inside, so that your marriage will not easily deteriorate.
Breaking down the 'Vinegar Jar'
In real life, there are many women who are full of jealousy. Whenever a man has a slight tendency to run away, they will immediately turn into an overturned vinegar jar. The sour water will flow all over the place, unstoppable, and they will cry and cry uncontrollably. They even curse the men's seven aunts, eight aunts, and eighth generation ancestors together, and even seek death and make trouble with the men's units and leaders, causing the men to fall into disrepute and become worse off.
This approach is obviously too much and seriously violates one's original psychological starting point of being jealous. Being jealous "should be a manifestation of one's concern and love for men, but in the end, it turns their noisy love into hate, and even irreparable personal insults and social status decline for both spouses. This cannot be said to be a foolish behavior, and it is harmful to marriage without any benefits.
Being jealous every day
Being jealous every day in daily life is usually beneficial for health, but being jealous every day in marriage is not acceptable. According to my understanding, most men actually hope that their women can eat some "vinegar" from the bottom of their hearts, which is an emotional need and a manifestation of men's value. But almost no man likes women to be "jealous" every day. Otherwise, even if women are charming and understand the art of marriage, men will eventually suffer from toothache and stomach cramps, and have to flee.
Based on my experience, I believe that women's "jealousy" should be based on men's acid tolerance and "good jealousy" level. It is best not to schedule "jealousy" behavior three or more times a week. Even if it is uncontrollable, it is necessary to learn to change the form and taste of "jealousy". For example, the previous time you used silence to ignore others, this time you will have to use tears, and the next time you will mainly use scraping language and sarcasm.
Be jealous regardless of the occasion
I often find that some women eat "vinegar" without considering the occasion. Whenever they smell the sour smell, they will immediately launch a "vinegar frenzy" wherever they go, often causing jealousy to startle everyone. This not only makes men and themselves feel embarrassed, but also embarrasses other people present. In fact, this approach is quite unacceptable. It not only damages one's own image, but also gives others a chance to speak up and take advantage of it. A smart woman will give face to men and everyone, but also to herself. When no one or two people are at home, she will "raise a teacher and ask for punishment". This is in line with the ancient saying that family shame should not be exposed and peace should be achieved. However, I am not opposed to using this method for some men who have too thick skin and lack self-esteem.
Eat all kinds of vinegar
Smart women always have a choice when it comes to eating "vinegar". They do not always have to eat it and refuse it, but will use their wisdom to make choices based on the actual situation and the situation at that time, because in their opinion, some "vinegar" is either inedible or useless to eat.
For example, in situations where a husband loves his children more than himself, shows filial piety to his parents more than himself, or is more enthusiastic about his sisters, or is favored by his female superiors, or even has a career where he constantly interacts with other women... etc., women must show magnanimity and be confused when doing something or not, To control, but to abandon it with moderation, the most important thing is to continuously improve one's own cultivation, and use one's own interests, temperament, and magnanimity to resolve various possible marital crises.
