Post Date December, 03 2023
A smart wife must be able to detect various changes in her husband's emotions in daily marriage life. When it comes to the topic of a man's infidelity, women will learn about his extramarital affairs in many details. Here are a few small details of a man's infidelity:
Many gifts are deceitful
When he suddenly treats you very well, be careful. He usually prioritizes his work or friends and never spends any time or effort on you. Today, he suddenly calls you to show his concern; A big piece of wood that you usually forget even on birthdays or anniversaries, but suddenly bought a thoughtful little gift for you; Suddenly accompany you to do what he used to dislike the most; Or suddenly accompany you to watch movies he doesn't like; Otherwise, suddenly helping you cook, wash clothes, and so on, this "sudden change" of "too many gifts must be deceitful" must be hiding and killing one's inner unease and guilt.
Pay attention to small movements
According to psychological theory, lying often involves involuntary and fixed small actions. This is not the plot of the god of gambling. It is also found in the clinical research of criminal psychology that when a perpetrator lies, he can often observe some fixed small actions, such as looking right in front of him, touching his nose, rubbing his hands, blinking, sweating, stuttering, etc. These small actions vary from person to person, but as long as he has been carefully observed for a long time, he must know when he is an "ace liar".
On holidays or late at night, the phone is always turned off, the phone at home is always not answered, and the call is often not answered. These "communication barriers" indicate that the other party must have concealed something, and the situation has reached a somewhat serious level.
Poor attendance status
Has he been behaving strangely lately? Occasionally, it suddenly disappears at around three to five o'clock, and after appearing, it says that the company is in an urgent situation (probably hiding somewhere to talk about actions), and there is no one to see during work hours. However, when it appears, it says that it is because the company supervisor has a temporary meeting (there are really not so many meetings to attend); The situation of being late for appointments is becoming more and more serious, but using traffic congestion, going to the bathroom as excuses, and such "disappearing situations" can be ignored once or twice. If they are too frequent, it is likely that the other party has deliberately concealed something.
Ask his friend
The most typical way for a man to lie is to use many non-existent excuses to deceive you, and nine out of ten are related to his friends! Lying must contain the five elements of "fiction": person, event, time, place, and object, and only the element of "person" has clues that can be traced. The next time he makes you suspect, as soon as the lie is told, immediately ask the person who made up the lie, and nine out of ten, it's too late to trick; In addition, it is only when you have a "romantic relationship" with the other party's friends that the person on the line informs you whether what the other party is saying is true.
Communication equipment often malfunctions
Communication equipment conditions are frequent, and the path of love is bound to hide crises. Social observers say that communication technology has brought each other closer, but it has also brought them further apart. However, if their communication technology often fails, they need to be careful whether their distances are getting further apart.
