Post Date November, 16 2024
Everyone has self-esteem and generally hopes that others will respect them. In fact, self-esteem is also necessary in sexual relationships, which means having sexual self-esteem with each other can make sexual relationships healthier and more perfect. However, sexual intercourse between partners harms self-esteem, significantly reduces sexual relationships, and leaves a psychological impact on the other party.
What can harm sexual self-esteem?
1. Always threatening or rejecting sexual demands
Denial and threats of sexual needs are the most common. One party strongly controls sexual activities, while the other party does not demand or agree. Using sex as a threat condition to achieve certain goals. In addition, some couples vent their emotions by refusing sex. Occasionally, there may be one or two emotional adjustments, but for a long time, it can hinder the other party's enjoyment of rights, lose dignity, and reduce sexual needs in the long run.
2. Laugh at one party's sexual expression and ability
Both the male and female partners hope to receive recognition and appreciation from each other in terms of sexual activity. However, sarcasm and complaints will definitely hurt the other party's self-esteem. Laughing at the short duration of sexual activity and poor sexual skills can seriously harm the other party's sexual self-esteem.
3. Shaming Physiology and Sexual Experience
Not paying attention to the other party's previous unpleasant sexual experiences, such as sexual physiological characteristics, joking, etc., not only damages one party's sexual self-esteem, but also constitutes sexual insult.
4. Excessive compulsion or sexual behavior
There are many ways to pursue sex, which is the normal sexual psychology of everyone. However, it is necessary to ensure that both men and women agree. If one always puts oneself at the center and forces one party to engage in unacceptable sexual activities, the other party will lose their dignity.
How can we develop good sexual habits?
1. Yes
If one party is not satisfied with their sexual performance, they must be given some understanding, comfort, and encouragement. Sexual activity is easily influenced by psychological factors, and a good mood and atmosphere make the other person more outstanding. Sex is a very complex process, not only involving the contact of sexual organs, but also the fusion of the hearts of both men and women.
2. More communication
Communication and exchange can quickly understand each other, and couples can communicate more to understand each other's needs, expectations, and foundations. I have a preference. More communication is beneficial for sexual pairing between couples, and it can also help to understand each other's bottom lines and boundaries, allowing both men and women to freely release themselves during sexual activities within an acceptable range.
