Although before marriage, every woman wants to hope that this man can love me as much as he did when he was in love. However, after marriage, every woman will find that the time of passionate love is gone forever
Many women feel the same way about marriage and men: "Before and after marriage, my treatment is twofold. What I am willing to do before marriage is never done again after marriage, and my attitude is a 180 degree turn
Therefore, women like to think of men as successful and profitable "conspiracy animals": "You can use all means before you get me; after you get me, you won't even throw a glance!" Yes, the marriage certificate will change a lot, but the marriage certificate is easiest to change is men. In the eyes of women, the utilitarian performance of men after marriage focuses on the following points:
After obtaining the certificate, he will no longer be punctual at your company's doorstep.
After getting married, I asked him to pick me up from work as usual. However, I was unexpectedly rejected. He even asked me to take the bus home on my own
You should know, this is not how utilitarian your husband is, it's just the most normal newlywed effect. Marriage finally brings the love war to an end, and the man returns from the exhausted battle. He believes that this is the time to take a break. He no longer wants to pick you up from work, really, just because he wants to take a vacation. Other, really no other ideas
After obtaining the certificate, he began to constantly criticize you.
Before marriage, he followed me in everything he did, and he absolutely respected my opinions. But after getting married, he started to be picky, finding the food I cooked unpleasant and my taste not good
Marriage helps men relax. He is picky about you, perhaps because he has already felt dissatisfied with you, but he believes that he should continue to swallow his anger before completely finalizing their relationship. Usually, such men meet a woman with good conditions. As long as he didn't drag her into marriage for a moment, he couldn't relax for a moment. The more a man is willing to be cautious before marriage, the greater the change after marriage, because after obtaining the certificate, he feels that it is time to become himself again.
After obtaining the certificate, men no longer pay attention to appearance.
As romantic relationships gradually deepen, women will find that men are becoming increasingly disheveled. Slovenness, being late, complaining... These things that he had never been able to do before are now all on the agenda. The original romantic guy has turned into a vulgar man.
As a woman, don't say 'I can't bear it'. In fact, if it weren't for gaining the attention of the opposite sex, over 90% of men wouldn't have the heart to package themselves from the inside out. Of course, if the woman gets it, the packaging can also be lifted. Women should not gnash their teeth, at least it indicates that this man is ready to live a down-to-earth life with you.
After obtaining the certificate, men began to pay more attention to other people's wives.
Before marriage, a man may have countless distractions, but after marriage, he can't help but glance at someone else's wife. Of course, it's not that they don't die of lust, but that men also have a hidden "comparative desire" in their hearts: to see someone else's wife and compare themselves to their own wife. This is a habit.
Love makes men strive to pretend to be perfect.
Marriage will bring men back to their essence.
A certificate, indeed, can change a lot.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)