The so-called people are afraid of entering the wrong line, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man! It is a very good thing to marry a good husband. So, sisters, please keep your eyes open and look for your husband. Those who do not meet the conditions must not be taken! After "careful" observation, when a man can do the following 15 things, you can consider marrying him
1. The most important thing for a man is to be strong. Those men who have failed once and then complain, are depressed, fall down and can't get up must not take it. A man should be able to give women a sense of security. If you find a husband who can't take care of you, and often cry about his misfortune in front of you, so that you can also bear the pain that he can actually save, it is a very failure.
2. Love the dog and the dog. If a man really loves you, he will love everything about you, including your bad habits, your friends, your family... If he can't tolerate the defects of your friends or family in some aspects or is dissatisfied with the people around you, then as a smart woman, he should avoid meeting them as much as possible; If he is so demanding that you should cut off contact with them, don't hesitate to dump him
3. Have a stable income. Love is very important, but it should be based on bread. You don't have to be rich, but you need to have security in your life. If a man can't even pay for his baby's milk powder, he will start to worry about the house payment for the next month at the beginning of this month, so you will have to suffer with him.
4. Loyalty. Needless to say, I believe that all women do not want their husbands to come out.
5. Be generous. You must not find a petty man, even if he loves you. But you are jealous because of little things. Whether you go out to socialize with your boss on business or have a party with friends who haven't been around for many years for private reasons, the man who makes a big noise after you go home or doesn't pay attention to you with a sullen face for a long time is actually selfish. Of course, he will say that he is jealous because he loves you. But don't forget, love a person and give her freedom. Sisters must not be housewives who are disguised by men to keep you at home and can only do laundry and cooking. Not that housewives are bad, but as women in this society, they should have their own social circle, be independent and self-reliant, and never find men who cannot give themselves free space.
6. Confidence. A man who exudes a sense of confidence can make women rely on him.
7. Masculinity. The masculinity here is not male chauvinism. Men who don't do any typical housework at home and stretch out their clothes to eat are not recommended. Masculinity means that when you are bullied outside, he can stand up for you without hesitation and really protect you. Just for this, this man is worth your consideration and commitment for life.
8. Good health. The man is not required to be strong and tall, but he must be healthy. A woman has some physical problems, which can be called impotence. If a man is sick all day, what do you say
9. Don't be good. No one says that filial piety is wrong. Filial men are very kind. However, everything between husband and wife asks others' opinions. They have no own opinions. They can't move their lips and say, "Mom said, Mom said..." Such a good baby in front of a mother must not be taken. Remember, you married a man, not the mother of that man.
10. Be responsible. Men must have a sense of responsibility, and dare to undertake what they do, whether it is public or private. The man who pushes others when he has something is not only mean but also shameful.
11. Appearance match. He is not required to be handsome, but he should not cause public anger. You can't stand tall and beautiful. Look for a short black fat man nearby.
12. Strong social skills. It doesn't mean that he must be active enough to laugh at people and hold hands when he sees them. It doesn't need him to have a certain tough wrist in social communication, but he can't be shy. When going out for entertainment together, he only knows to stand by and giggle, but can't find a topic to talk with your colleagues. The man who needs you to stand up for the occasion will make you look pale.
13. Have a peaceful heart. The world is used to measuring a person's value by his success in his career. In fact, a person's value depends on whether his existence is important to others. Even if that person can't achieve the same brilliant achievements as others in his career, his ordinary life is as important as the people around him, which means it is valuable. If a man can't look at his gains and losses with a peaceful heart, and is cynical all day long, blaming society for injustice and life for injustice, then you will also affect your mentality when you are with him, which is easy to be extreme, causing great pressure on your psychology, and leading to your unhappy life.
14. Careful and interesting. He may not remember the birthday of your uncle, uncle, aunt and aunt, but your birthday and wedding anniversary must be remembered. These two days are very important in marriage. It is best to go out for romance and receive gifts.
15. No bad habits. You can smoke a little and drink a little, but not too much. You don't want to go back every day to face a drunken drunk with a strong smell of smoke in his mouth