According to John Gray, an internationally renowned expert on interpersonal and emotional issues, women are not born as sexual suppressants, nor are they born as experts. In China, both parties should strive to find both suitable and appropriate techniques to create a harmonious and intimate relationship. Adding motivation to sexual activity:
NO.1. Take responsibility for one's own sexuality.
Mainly for wives, they have the right to make proactive demands on their sexual pleasure. When you are feeling unwell or in poor health, you should politely decline. In sexual life, it is important to find pleasure for oneself and strive to make the husband understand their needs.
NO.2. A harmonious daily life helps to promote sexual satisfaction.
In daily life, mutual care and understanding between couples is the best way to strengthen their relationship, harmonize emotions, and enhance intimacy.
NO.3. Continuously changing the way you have sex.
Long term use of one method can easily lead to a sense of boredom. Both parties should constantly innovate and try different times, environments, locations, postures, etc.
NO.4. Don't wait.
When it is difficult for women to achieve sex, they may try other sexual lifestyles, such as self touching, reading books and paintings with sexual content, etc. This may be helpful.
NO.5 should be appropriate.
This can increase the sexual pleasure of both parties.
NO.6. Do not bring dissatisfaction into sexual life.
If one does not cooperate with the other party during sexual activity or temporarily suspends sexual activity due to temporary arguments, sulking, and complaining, it will bring hidden dangers to future sexual life.
NO.7. If you have sexual issues, you should consult experts in a timely manner.
If one party has sexual issues, do not be afraid and shy of seeking medical attention, otherwise it will bring more troubles.
NO.8. Don't strive for perfection every time.
Some people (especially men) always expect every single life to be perfect, otherwise they either blame themselves or blame each other. It should be noted that even experts in this field find it difficult to achieve perfection every time.
NO.9. Don't take temporary sexual failure too seriously.
Temporary erectile dysfunction in men and occasional inability to reach orgasm in women are normal phenomena, and there is no need to worry about it all the time to avoid negative effects on future sexual life, such as tension and tension.
NO.10. Create a harmonious sexual environment.
A harmonious sexual environment has a positive promoting effect on the level of sexual satisfaction. Disorderly living rooms, noise interference, and uninsulated facilities can all seriously affect the quality and quantity of sexual life.