Post Date December, 03 2023
Sincerity is the foundation of love. What should you do when you suspect that he is lying to you? Asking for punishment in person is the dumbest way, and if you want to understand his lies, you may as well remain calm and observe carefully. You will find that men's little braids are actually easy to catch!
1. Attack them unprepared
When a person is extremely happy, they will inevitably forget. If you have been skeptical of their sincerity for a period of time, don't point it out first, restrain yourself from making any reactions, and for some time, let them not be cautious. One day, while the other party is extremely happy, suddenly attack them unpreparedly and make a challenge, ensuring that they will stumble and suddenly lose consciousness, revealing the truth of the lie.
2. Swear by heaven
This method is very ancient, but it is also very simple and effective! Most Chinese people believe that after taking a false oath, they will receive retribution. When you suspect the other person is lying, if you say "I don't believe it, then you swear!" in a coquettish and joking tone, but the other person responds with phrases such as "Why is it so boring?" or "I didn't do it again, why did you make me swear?. Many lovers may doubt whether they are loyal to themselves or not? Did you lie? Is it enough to love you? It is reasonable to have such doubts, because it is important that there is doubt. If you don't care, how can you want to understand him better and be closer to his heart? However, if doubt has become the main theme of your love, don't forget that sincerity is the cornerstone of love. When trust is lost, the value of love no longer exists.
3. Many gifts are deceitful
When he suddenly treats you very well, be careful. He usually prioritizes his work or friends and never spends any time or effort on you. Today, he suddenly calls you to show his concern; A big piece of wood that you usually forget even on birthdays or anniversaries, but suddenly bought a thoughtful little gift for you; Suddenly accompany you to do what he used to dislike the most; Or suddenly accompany you to watch movies he doesn't like; Otherwise, suddenly helping you cook and wash clothes... and so on, this "sudden change" of "too many gifts must be deceitful" must be hiding and killing one's inner unease and guilt.
4. Pay attention to small movements
According to psychological theory, lying often involves involuntary and fixed small actions. This is not the plot of the god of gambling. It is also found in the clinical research of criminal psychology that when a perpetrator lies, he can often observe some fixed small actions, such as looking right in front of him, touching his nose, rubbing his hands, blinking, sweating, stuttering, etc. These small actions vary from person to person, but as long as he has been carefully observed for a long time, he must know when he is an "ace liar".
5. Remember one lie, ten lies will reveal their flaws
Lying can become a habit, and some people have already developed the habit of using lies to make up for them. However, unless he is a born big liar, a lie is easy to cover up, and if he doesn't tell it, no one will know it for a lifetime; However, after telling ten lies, a hundred lies, a thousand lies, even the liar may not be able to figure out what they have said? You just need to randomly "spot check" something he said to ensure that he will reveal his flaws, but when probing, you need to have some skills to avoid making him wary!
6. Ask his friend
The most typical way for a man to lie is to use many non-existent excuses to deceive you, and nine out of ten are related to his friends! Lying must contain the five elements of "fiction": person, event, time, place, and object, and only the element of "person" has clues that can be traced. The next time he makes you suspect, as soon as the lie is told, immediately ask the person who made up the lie, and nine out of ten, it's too late to trick; In addition, it is only by "fighting for love" with the other party's friends that wired people tell you whether the other party's words are true. Therefore, smart women should start wooing their comrades now.
7. Poor attendance status
Has he been behaving strangely lately? Occasionally, it suddenly disappears at around three to five o'clock, and after appearing, it says that the company is in an urgent situation (probably hiding somewhere to talk about actions), and there is no one to see during work hours. However, when it appears, it says that it is because the company supervisor has a temporary meeting (there are really not so many meetings to attend); The situation of being late for appointments is becoming increasingly serious, but using traffic congestion and going to the bathroom as excuses, such as "disappearing situations", occasionally once or twice, is enough. If it is too frequent, it is likely that the other party has deliberately concealed something.
8. Love without a signal
Communication equipment conditions are frequent, and the path of love is bound to hide crises. Social observers say that communication technology has brought each other closer, but it has also brought them further apart. However, if their communication technology often fails, they need to be careful whether their distances are getting further apart. On holidays or late at night, the phone is always turned off, the phone at home is always not answered, and the call is often not answered. These "communication barriers" indicate that the other party must have concealed something, and the situation has reached a somewhat serious level.
9. Absent-mindedness
No one in this world likes to lie, so when a lie is told, anyone will be afraid of being inadvertently discovered. Therefore, many people inevitably become hesitant when speaking after lying, and more skillfully, they may even use subtle excuses to get angry with you, divert your attention, and even make small things angry at you, making you nervous or ashamed to forget his small situation. If you still think that his recent ups and downs may be due to work pressure, then be careful to end up crying without tears!
10. Personality change
A temporary change in personality is also one of the signs of lying, such as being quiet becoming talkative, lively becoming calm, accustomed to being messy but deliberately dressing up, and suddenly praising someone who is not accustomed to praising them, all of which indicate that they have secrets hidden in their hearts! Men are not actually fickle animals, and most of them react only when stimulated. At this point, you need to understand whether this stimulation comes from other women!
